tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142157698921496322.post1326429226810105680..comments2022-09-07T03:23:27.934-06:00Comments on I Found This Creepy: If I'm Not Warm and Fuzzy, Am I Cold and Prickly?ChutzpahGrrlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10835045830579279825noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142157698921496322.post-73498865712279942812012-03-09T13:09:51.733-07:002012-03-09T13:09:51.733-07:00I can't see any male/female dominance issues h...I can't see any male/female dominance issues here. I see a controlling person who is trying to make you feel badly for taking care of yourself instead of running over and taking care of him. I do think society gives men more of a pass for being manipulative than women, but then society has given men a pass for being abusive to their partners in all kinds of ways...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142157698921496322.post-984981995091631502012-03-08T19:06:43.430-07:002012-03-08T19:06:43.430-07:00Btw, happy International Women's Day everyone....Btw, happy International Women's Day everyone.<br /><br />When I was little and was understanding that there's a Mother's Day and Father's Day I asked my mother why there wasn't a Kid's Day. She told me the same thing her mother told her: "Every day is Kid's Day."<br /><br />...ChutzpahGrrlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10835045830579279825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3142157698921496322.post-26752263353125427072012-03-08T14:29:01.591-07:002012-03-08T14:29:01.591-07:00I am just full of thoughts about this.
1) A mascu...I am just full of thoughts about this.<br /><br />1) A masculine-human translation guide: You're being mean = you didn't give me what I wanted<br />You're crazy = I just lost my locus of control over you. <br />2) I think the study cited herein, should be renamed: how to attract people invested in their traditional gender role. I, personally care less and less, that being nice, listening openly, etc., makes me more likely to be the girlfriend, and less likely the boyfriend, of women in search of marriage, pregnancy and property, who spend a great deal of energy justifying their partners' abusive actions<br />3)I think one model of equality, has no one either dominant o submissive. Another is to trade those roles equally. If there's a way for both parties to be dominant simultaneously, I've not encountered it, but it sounds hot.mikeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17134210183983003535noreply@blogger.com